3 Step Framework to Become an Intentional Man
Last week we spoke about the original sin of man: passivity. If you missed it, read it here. The antidote to passivity is intentionality. 3 Step Framework for Becoming an Intentional Man. 1) Identify Your Areas of Responsibility We all have them. Question is: how are they doing under your care?
List them out and figure out where you need to turn up the intentionality. 2) Write The Vision Intention = first vision, then action
Vision is often overlooked and as a result, you fall off. Why? Because vision sets a north star that underpins and gives reason for your action. Vision = I see a world where ________ Get specific. You should be able to clearly see and feel what you see. Example:
Do not underestimate vision. The clearer the vision, the easier the action. 3) Take Action Action = Today I will _______ Actions are step you take that get you closer to the vision. This can be big or small. Do what you can do, not what you can’t do. Example:
This framework is entry level stuff for learning to reign in life. It's simple but not easy. It's easy to read this and go "awesome, love it" and then do nothing. But I'm willing to bet there is an area in your life that could use this. So take 30 minutes this week:
You will feel an energy in your day that wasn't there before. Give it a go! Till next time. VM If you were forwarded this newsletter and want in: Join Here. The Gentlemen's AgreementBy reading this newsletter, you are committing to live as a Vital Man. And as with every mission, the message must travel. Here's the deal: if you received a nugget from this newsletter, simply hit "forward" and share it with someone who comes to mind. We will keep sharing the message & you keep spreading. If you want to hear about a certain topic, hit "reply" and let us know. |
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The Original Sin Of Man I recently re-read the story of Adam & Eve something jumped off the page that changed my entire perspective. We often focus on (and blame) Eve for the fall of mankind. But this time I saw something different. I saw the original sin of man: Passivity. Let me explain: (my working definition of passivity: neglecting God-given responsibility) It’s going through the motions It's living life in the background It's sitting in the stands vs being in the arena It's leaning back...